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When–Then Routine: Clear Steps, Less Pushback
A simple rule: WHEN (required) is done, THEN (preferred) happens. Predictable, fair, and calm.
Mom&Dad Tracker Team
July 3, 2025 · 4 min read
Why it works
It removes negotiations and clarifies sequence. Kids learn cause→effect without lectures.
Examples
WHEN teeth are brushed, THEN we read. WHEN toys are in the bin, THEN the playlist starts. WHEN homework is checked, THEN screens.
Keep tone warm
Say it once and point to a visual. Track 'when–then' wins in Mom&Dad Tracker to see compliance grow.